- Years in practice
- 21
- Credentials
- LMHC
- Licensed in
- Washington
- Languages
- English
- Focus
- Stress, Anxiety
- Focus
- Addictions
- Focus
- Relationship issues
About Nan
Nan Joy is a licensed mental health counselor in Washington who helps people manage stress, anxiety, depression, addiction concerns, and relationship difficulties. She approaches work with respect and compassion and focuses on practical support for everyday struggles. Parents looking for guidance around parenting challenges will find a calm, steady presence and straightforward tools to try between sessions.
With 21 years of experience, Nan shapes conversations to match each person’s needs.
Background and approach
Sessions aim to clarify what matters most and set small, realistic steps toward change. She listens for patterns that cause pain and helps people spot options they might have missed. Narrative threads about personal history and current behavior often come up.
Nan uses psychodynamic ideas to notice how past experiences influence present choices. She also draws on client-centered practices to keep the conversation grounded in what the client wants to address right now. Existential perspectives are part of her approach when people face big life questions or feel stuck by meaning and values.
That work looks at choices, responsibility, and how to live in a way that fits who someone wants to be. These ideas can help with career shifts, grief, and navigating major life changes. Clients should expect a practical, conversational style.
Nan emphasizes collaboration and clear goals rather than jargon. She supports people through setbacks and helps them build skills for handling future challenges.
What Nan works with
Everything Nan lists, in the therapist's own terms. Parenting is the reason this directory exists; the rest shows what else Nan helps people with.
- Stress, Anxiety
- Addictions
- Relationship issues
- Trauma and abuse
- Depression
- LGBT
- Family conflicts
- Grief
- Intimacy-related issues
- Parenting issues
- Anger management
- Self esteem
- Career difficulties
- Coping with life changes
- Coaching
- Abandonment
- Codependency
- Commitment issues
- Control issues
- Dissociation
- Divorce and separation
- Drug and alcohol addiction
- Family of origin issues
- Family problems
- Guilt and shame
- Infidelity
- Men's issues
- Mood disorders
- Multicultural concerns
- Obsessions, compulsions, and OCD
- Personality disorders
- Post-traumatic stress
- Process addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)
- Self-harm
- Self-love
- Sex addiction
- Sexual assault and abuse
- Sexual dysfunction
- Sexuality
- Social anxiety and phobia
- Somatization
- Women's issues
Approaches Nan lists
Listing an approach is not evidence of training in it. This directory copies what each therapist names and does not check training records.
Approaches that guide online sessions and practical support
Nan brings client-centered therapy into online work by making sessions about what the person wants to address that day. This approach means the therapist listens closely and follows the client's lead to set priorities and short-term goals.She uses psychodynamic ideas to help clients see how past patterns affect current behavior. Online conversations may include gentle exploration of family history, recurring relationship patterns, or early experiences that shape present reactions. That perspective can be useful for issues like codependency, abandonment concerns, or patterns that show up in parenting.
Existential perspectives appear when people face big choices, grief, or life transitions. The therapist will help clients name values, weigh options, and decide what matters most in their lives. This work is often practical and decision-focused rather than abstract.
Finding the right approach is part of the work. The therapist will collaborate with each person to decide which ideas fit best, adjusting methods based on needs, goals, and preferences. Clients can expect to try approaches and give feedback so sessions stay useful.
Online formats available include video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging. Video is useful for a fuller conversation and visual cues, while phone sessions can fit into a busy day or require less bandwidth. Live chat and messaging offer shorter check-ins, journaling-style exchanges, or ongoing support between appointments. These options make it easier to schedule care around parenting, work, and travel.
Questions people ask about Nan
What concerns does she address?
She works with stress, anxiety, depression, addiction issues, relationship and intimacy concerns, parenting, grief, LGBT matters, anger, self-esteem, career changes, and related areas.
What is her therapeutic style?
Her style is conversational and goal-focused, combining client-centered listening with psychodynamic and existential ideas to help people understand patterns and make changes.
How much experience does she have?
She has 21 years of professional counseling experience working with a wide range of concerns and life transitions.
What credentials and region are listed?
She holds the credential LMHC and practices in Washington state under the listed registration WA LMHC LH.
Which languages and international options are available?
Sessions are offered in English and she accepts international clients.
What session formats are offered?
She offers video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging to fit different schedules and needs.
How does pricing work?
Cost varies with location and therapist availability and sessions use a subscription model that can be canceled at any time.
How do I begin working with her?
Click the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule sessions according to therapist availability.
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