- Years in practice
- 15
- Credentials
- LPC
- Licensed in
- Wisconsin
- Languages
- English
- Focus
- Stress, Anxiety
- Focus
- Trauma and abuse
- Focus
- Self esteem
About Deborah
Deborah Thoennes is a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) in Wisconsin who focuses on helping people navigate stress, anxiety, depression, and parenting concerns. She writes short, practical plans with each person so they can try things between sessions and notice what changes. Deborah values respectful, sensitive, and compassionate conversation that centers each person's needs and goals.
She draws on client-centered methods to keep sessions focused on the person's experience. She also uses cognitive behavioral ideas to help identify unhelpful thinking and try healthier behavior.
Background and approach
Emotionally-focused and mindfulness approaches help people notice and work through strong feelings when they feel stuck. Deborah has about 15 years of professional experience in counseling. That time includes supporting people dealing with trauma and abuse, self-esteem and confidence struggles, coping with life changes, grief, career transitions, and complex conditions such as bipolar disorder and ADHD.
She also works with concerns tied to caregiving, chronic illness, body image, and abandonment issues. In sessions she aims to tailor conversations and plans to each person's unique situation. She will listen first, then suggest options that match the person's goals and daily life.
Many clients find the mix of practical steps and emotional work helpful for steady progress. Deborah practices in Wisconsin and conducts sessions in English. She encourages a gradual approach to change and supports people as they take the first steps toward a more manageable and satisfying life.
What Deborah works with
Everything Deborah lists, in the therapist's own terms. Parenting is the reason this directory exists; the rest shows what else Deborah helps people with.
- Stress, Anxiety
- Trauma and abuse
- Self esteem
- Depression
- Coping with life changes
- LGBT
- Relationship issues
- Family conflicts
- Grief
- Eating disorders
- Parenting issues
- Anger management
- Career difficulties
- Bipolar disorder
- Compassion fatigue
- ADHD
- Abandonment
- Adoption and foster care
- Aging and geriatric issues
- Antisocial personality
- Attachment issues
- Avoidant personality
- Body image
- Cancer
- Caregiver issues and stress
- Chronic pain, illness, and disability
- Co-morbidity
- Codependency
- Commitment issues
- Communication problems
- Control issues
- Coping with natural or human-caused disaster
- Dependent personality
- Disruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)
- Dissociation
- Divorce and separation
- Domestic violence
- Eating and food-related issues
- Emptiness
- Family of origin issues
- Family problems
- Fatherhood issues
- First responder issues
- Forgiveness
- Guilt and shame
- Hoarding
- Hospice and end-of-life counseling
- Impulsivity
- Infidelity
- Intellectual disability
- Isolation / loneliness
- Jealousy
- Life purpose
- Men's issues
- Midlife crisis
- Veteran and Armed Forces Issues
- Money and financial issues
- Mood disorders
- Narcissism
- Obsessions, compulsions, and OCD
- Panic disorder and panic attacks
- Paranoia
- Personality disorders
- Phobias
- Postpartum depression
- Post-traumatic stress
- Pregnancy and childbirth
- Prejudice and discrimination
- Process addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)
- Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)
- Self-harm
- Self-love
- Sexual assault and abuse
- Smoking / vaping cessation
- Social anxiety and phobia
- Somatization
- Women's issues
- Workplace issues
- Young adult issues
Approaches Deborah lists
- Client-Centered Therapy
- Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)
- Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)
- Existential Therapy
- Mindfulness Therapy
- Motivational Interviewing
- Narrative Therapy
- Psychodynamic Therapy
- Solution-Focused Therapy
- Trauma-Focused Therapy
- Internal Family Systems
- Systemic Therapy
Listing an approach is not evidence of training in it. This directory copies what each therapist names and does not check training records.
Approaches that translate to online care
Client-centered therapy focuses on the person's experience and priorities. It involves listening carefully, reflecting what matters, and shaping the work around the client's goals rather than a rigid plan. This approach helps when someone needs a supportive space to sort through parenting stress, grief, or identity concerns.Cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) looks at how thoughts, feelings, and actions link together. In practice it means trying brief exercises and tracking what happens, then adjusting patterns that cause distress. CBT is useful for anxiety, depression, and practical problems like sleep, routines, or daily stressors.
Emotionally-focused work helps people name and sit with strong emotions and then try different ways of relating to those feelings. It can be especially helpful when emotions get in the way of making decisions or connecting with others. Deborah will discuss which of these approaches might fit best and tailor the plan to the client's needs and preferences in a collaborative way.
Online sessions can be scheduled as video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging to match what works in a given week. Video lets people use body language and visual cues, phone calls need less bandwidth, chat can be good for short check-ins, and messaging supports ongoing reflection. These options make it easier to fit counseling around school, work, or caregiving responsibilities while keeping the focus on practical steps and emotional progress.
Questions people ask about Deborah
What kinds of concerns does Deborah help address?
She works with stress, anxiety, depression, trauma and abuse, parenting concerns, self-esteem, grief, anger, and related issues like ADHD and compassion fatigue.
What is her general therapeutic style?
Her style is respectful and person-focused, combining client-centered listening with practical steps drawn from cognitive behavioral and emotionally-focused methods.
How much clinical experience does she have?
She has about 15 years of professional counseling experience in a variety of settings.
What are her credentials and practice location?
She is a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) licensed in Wisconsin and bases her practice in that state.
Which languages are offered and can international clients join?
Sessions are offered in English, and she does not accept international clients at this time.
What session formats are available for online work?
She offers video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging to fit different needs and schedules.
How does payment and cost work for sessions?
Cost varies by location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.
How do I begin working with her?
Start by selecting the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule according to the therapist's availability.
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