- Years in practice
- 25
- Credentials
- LPC
- Licensed in
- Texas
- Languages
- English
- Focus
- Stress, Anxiety
- Focus
- Relationship issues
- Focus
- Depression
About Rafaela
Rafaela DeSoto-Ray is a Licensed Professional Counselor who brings 25 years of experience to sessions. She focuses on practical support for stress, anxiety, depression, parenting concerns, and coping with life changes. Rafaela offers straightforward strategies parents can try between sessions to ease daily challenges.
She uses a mix of approaches tailored to each person. That means she listens first, then suggests tools that match your situation and goals. Sessions often include skill-building for emotion management, problem-solving for day-to-day issues, and steps to improve sleep and routines.
Background and approach
Rafaela has worked with people affected by trauma, grief, ADHD, bipolar mood concerns, and anger. She also has experience with aging and geriatric issues, neurological conditions, and caregiver stress. Her background helps when medical or developmental factors affect behavior and family life.
Her style is collaborative and respectful. She treats the person in front of her as the expert in their own life and builds on existing strengths. Each meeting aims to leave you with at least one practical idea to try that week.
Rafaela practices in Texas as an LPC and conducts sessions in English. Parents looking for clear, usable tools for everyday family challenges often choose her because she focuses on real-life solutions rather than jargon.
What Rafaela works with
Everything Rafaela lists, in the therapist's own terms. Parenting is the reason this directory exists; the rest shows what else Rafaela helps people with.
- Stress, Anxiety
- Relationship issues
- Depression
- Coping with life changes
- ADHD
- Family conflicts
- Trauma and abuse
- Grief
- Intimacy-related issues
- Sleeping disorders
- Parenting issues
- Anger management
- Bipolar disorder
- Aging and geriatric issues
- Attachment issues
- Autism and Asperger Syndrome
- Caregiver issues and stress
- Codependency
- Communication problems
- Control issues
- Disruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)
- Dissociation
- Family of origin issues
- Family problems
- Forgiveness
- Guilt and shame
- Impulsivity
- Infidelity
- Intellectual disability
- Life purpose
- Men's issues
- Midlife crisis
- Mood disorders
- Panic disorder and panic attacks
- Post-traumatic stress
- Sexual assault and abuse
- Sexuality
- Somatization
- Traumatic brain injury
Approaches Rafaela lists
Listing an approach is not evidence of training in it. This directory copies what each therapist names and does not check training records.
Approaches that guide remote parenting support
Client-centered therapy starts by putting the person's own goals and experience at the center of work. The therapist listens without judgment and helps people build on strengths they already have, which is useful when parents want practical changes in family life.Cognitive behavioral therapy, or CBT, focuses on the connection between thoughts, feelings, and behaviors. It offers concrete tools for managing anxiety, sleep problems, and mood changes by practicing new thinking patterns and actions between sessions.
Solution-focused therapy hones in on what is already working and on small, achievable steps forward. This approach is helpful when someone needs short-term plans for specific parenting challenges or quick ways to reduce daily stress.
Figuring out the best approach is a team effort. The therapist will talk with the client about goals, try methods that fit those goals, and adjust over time. That collaborative process helps make sure the work stays relevant and useful.
Online therapy lets people connect using video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging. Video calls give face-to-face interaction, phone sessions can fit into a busy day with less bandwidth, live chat is good for brief check-ins, and messaging supports ongoing reflection between meetings. These options make it easier to fit therapy into family routines and work schedules.
Questions people ask about Rafaela
What concerns does Rafaela help with?
She supports people coping with stress, anxiety, depression, parenting challenges, trauma and abuse, grief, anger, bipolar mood concerns, and sleep problems among other issues.
What therapeutic approach is used in sessions?
Her work blends client-centered, cognitive behavioral, and solution-focused methods to match each person's needs and goals.
How much experience does she have?
Rafaela has 25 years of professional experience working with a range of mental health and behavioral concerns.
What are her credentials and where is she based?
She is a Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC, licensed in Texas and provides services from that state.
Which languages are sessions offered in?
Sessions are offered in English.
What session formats are available?
Therapy is offered as video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging to fit different schedules and preferences.
How does cost and scheduling work?
Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.
How do I begin working with Rafaela?
Start by selecting the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule sessions according to therapist availability.
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